How I Disclose My HIV Diagnosis While Dating

Jessica333
3 min readOct 27, 2022

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How to disclose this to our potential partner? This disclaimer’s a crime to engage in a sexual relationship with somebody without this Crossing your HIV diagnosis as far as today, even if we are fighting those unjust laws but still, in the United States in the Majority of States it’s a crime. So how do we go about that? You meet somebody you feel you are attracted to that person, and there’s some chemistry going on. What to do? How do you tell? The first thing is building trust.

Did Your Partner Love You?

Trust is not built in a day. It’s not making a dense. It’s not building over a glass of wine trust is created by doing an activity together. Number one, as you feel that person attracted to that person, include your friend to your new friend, your person you are attracted to your daily activities. This may consist of a meeting, a support group meeting, or your friends meeting your family.

So you become familiar, and you see how this person is going to react if you tell that person I diagnosed with HIV. the first step includes build trust Trust is built by having that person in your life, not the Cyber relationship none behind the cell phone but in real life put that protect that person from supporting groups take that person to your family just start to start being open. Open up to that person, so you assess which type of person they are in two indicators to know a good man from a Batman. The first one is how the person Drives. Oh my God, if you’re driving with somebody and he’s cursing all the way, be careful. He’s not respecting the sign. He’s stressed up. He’s bumping into the steering wheel. Be a cautious lady. That’s not a person to tell you about living with HIV. That’s my thought, my Opinion.

Treating Other People:

This is the second test of how that person treats the waiter people who. If you’re in a restaurant, I do not mean tipping; how does he address those people? I dated the person he called lady, and I asked would you mind calling me Claire, please, and then he said no, I’m an Irish gentleman. I only talk to ladies. Imagine how I feel with that person whenever we go to a restaurant. He will pull the chair I sit on, carry my purse, and remove my coat. He may be watching, and he knows what he will do. He will release my winter boots. He treated me like a lady, and in a restaurant, he would talk to the waitpersons respectfully. And I was amazed by how he handled people and opened the door before I went in the car, made sure I was correctly seated, and let declared can we go? Are you where are we going with, say, today?

With that kind of treatment a person like that it’s easy to tell that person, you are Living with HIV. Still, if a person is not in a restaurant, his main he is meant to wear as his men to the security guard his men to order these people giving us services daily of you or if it’s a delivery home delivery, he’s mean he’s on the phone where is my cellphone hey be careful that’s not a person it’s my Opinion you can go ahead. Still, I’m saying build trust by being with the person face to face, not cyber, not behind the cell phone. So that person who yelled at the servers and everybody should not tell that person you are diagnosed with HIV.

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Jessica333
Jessica333

Written by Jessica333

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