How Do You Tell Somebody That You Are HIV-Positive?

Jessica333
5 min readJul 7, 2022

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I was diagnosed with HIV. I did not tell two people that I had slept with, and I had stayed with them years ago, but I don’t know who all is like I said, I’m going to speak from me, in general, the two people that I Slept with that I didn’t tell them.

So we had this type of relationship; whenever I saw them, we smashed. That’s just how it was on both of them. If I saw one one-yen, so I want to up another year whenever it was, you smashed the person you constantly have. So I had seen one first, and then I had you know I’m saying I had said with them three times he didn’t tell them. Then I tell them about it. I told him that I was infected. I told him that I was with somebody. I called a girl’s phone. I was like, and I found out that he was cheating on me because he knew I had a boyfriend like I found out was cheating on me and he went on his phone.

Tested HIV Positive:

I had called his girl, and a girl said that her boyfriend was HIV positive. I’m like we need to get tested, so that’s how I told him, so when I told him that I waited like once he went to get tested and then I was like I was going to get tested, and I said I didn’t have it he said you didn’t have it. So he kept messing with me, and then I wound up sleeping with him again, didn’t tell, and then I wound up telling them like I was lying about everything I can’t let him on. No, I did it a third time, and they denied it. I was like I came down the mall and told him everything. Like, I’ve been affected for how long, and I was like, I’m sorry I had to try to hurt you.

I just wanted to feel normal, and he was looking at me. You’re going to feel normal as I am when they tell you you are HIV positive. It changes your life. It changes the way you live, and it changes your sex life. It changes everything. It takes what was once normal away from you. So now you have to behave in a different way, and I didn’t want to behave in a different way. I wanted to say something, so it was my usual for me and at the time the part of my partner I was with was still with him. I’m saying so to the person I was cheating with, and we’re not going to say I even was cheating because I wouldn’t even if we once again said that the time wasn’t together that’s time he left.

So I don’t really know how I told him that I was infected, and I told him everything, and after that, he’s still messing with me. I could believe that he said that we got the worst, but he said he knew my heart, he knew me before this. He knew I wasn’t the wrong person, second person, the same thing I lied told him the same story, scared the same screw, and I did it a couple of times the same way, and then I came clean and told him everything, and we were okay. So after that, I made a vow to myself, and every time I met somebody, I told them I was optimistic.

So, I vow to myself every time I mess around with somebody. I just met them, and I would tell them that I was Living With HIV positive. sometimes. I did not come straight for the first time having a conversation. I’ll wait maybe a couple of weeks after we don’t talk on the phone. We don’t win out. I have to keep him from getting drunk. Whatever you know you kick it with a person.

I waited a couple of times after seeing them during a couple of conversations, and I always found a way to throw up HIV, which would let me know if I could feel comfortable telling them that I was HIV. It would always help me understand. If I could tell them if I was HIV positive, but not every time I told people, they put me in a friend zone, and he made me feel some way made me feel like my sex life was taken away from me. My love life could be taken away from me because of HIV, and I felt terrible. It had me in a state of depression for a very long time because I felt nobody would love me. Nobody would want to be with me because I was that way, but when I started to understand that this is who I am and this is who I’m going to be and if somebody liked me because at that point You have to you is it isn’t like this is a like thing.

Educate Yourself:

If a person likes you, they’ll get to know you and not they would get to know you and everything that it is about you and a part of you is HIV you are not HIV listen to me. You are not HIV. You are more than just HIV. A person will love to be with you. All you have to do is know who you are and educate yourself so that you can educate somebody else, and it will make them feel better to mess around with you.

I think the more you become educated about who you are and what you have, the easier it would be to share your status with others and not care how they feel. If they put you in the friend zone, if they never want to talk to you again and continue talking to you, it would not matter. So for me, I think disclosing your status has nothing to do with the other person. It has nothing to do with how you tell somebody you’re optimistic or not. I think it has more to do with you and your confidence in yourself and your confidence. if you feel worried to disclose your status then there are HIV Dating Sites that are going to help you there you are no need to disclose your status and your profile is maintained with a secure and safe.

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Jessica333
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